There’s more to this than just weighing the pros and cons
You’ve been through the same conversation with yourself (and others) what feels like a million times. You know what the pros and cons are—you’ve been through that and back around.
But something inside of you is struggling to make a decision regardless.
Do you catch yourself saying:
👉“I’ve invested so much already, I’m terrified of starting over”
👉“I do love them, but I don’t know if I can keep going like this”
👉“We have so much good here, but there’s a few fundamental differences I can’t keep overlooking”
👉“I don’t know if it’s bad enough to leave, but I know I haven’t felt like my happy self in a long time”
You just want to know which decision to make.
Arguably, it’s the not-making-a-decision feeling that’s eating away at you.
You can’t help but feel like it’s taking up all your energy, and keeping you stuck and miserable.
On top of it all—you feel like a bad person for not being able to make this decision. It feels like whatever decision, you’ll hurt your partner. And you feel like it’s a lose-lose no matter how you slice it.
Do you think 👉 If you stick it out, you’ll stay miserable.
👉 But If you leave, you’ll be single and have to restart the dating journey and entertain thoughts like “what if I just broke up with the best that’s out there for me?”
It’s paralyzing being caught in this limbo. And you don’t want to keep living this way.
Start seeking a healthy and conscious way to make a decision with a conscious breakup coach.
I know what it’s like thinking of ending a relationship.
And I’m here to guide you through what you need help with most.
There’s 2 types of “breakup instigators” that I’ve worked with over the last 7+ years:
Someone who feels they deserve better but are terrified that “better” doesn’t exist outside of this relationship and they’d almost rather stay in a problematic/chaotic relationship than deal with the unknown (and sacrifice the possibility of someone incredible awaiting in the future), or:
Someone who’s been battling these feelings for months (maybe even years) but feels so much shame and fear about making the decision to leave what feels like a very mediocre relationship when nothing “big” has happened to shake the relationship. They’ve fallen out of love and it’s hard to admit that. They feel the pending judgment radiating from family and friends, and despise the thought of becoming single and having to face the unknown.
Whether you identity with the 1st or 2nd scenario, know I’ve got you. And you deserve to be in a judgment-free zone to help you make the right decision that’s best for you.
