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It’s time to work through your breakup

Hi! I'm Nancy, and I'm a Vancouver-based breakup coach who helps men and women get the extra support they need after their relationships end—100% online.  

Find Out if Breakup Coaching is Right for You

You’ve been thinking about ending your relationship for a while.

You approach things fairly logically; you’re clear that thing aren’t so…clear. On one hand, you know all your current partner’s best qualities. But then..there’s the issue of those qualities that make you question your entire relationship.

You have come to realize that your typical pros-and-cons list just isn’t working, and you’re wanting to turn to a professional who can help you sort through your complex and tangled thoughts…sooner, rather than later.

  • Maybe you’re embarrassed because you “should have” seen the signs earlier, but don’t know how to get out of it after all this time

  • Maybe you’re terrified of repeating old dating patterns, and afraid of ending up alone

your relationship just ended, and you are…#struggling.

Whether you were the one who bravely ended things, or the one who just got broken up with, you find yourself viciously searching Google for the pending answer to “how to get over a breakup fast.” You are caught between feelings of “I can’t handle the loneliness,” and, “I don’t think my friends really get what I’m going through.”

You decide that your Life Coach Google isn’t enough to soothe your breakup, and you’re looking for advice, resources, and relatability from a coach who won’t just give you basic advice like, “you need to be alone,” or, “you just need to meet new people.”

  • You might be inspired to learn healthy ways to work through your breakup

  • You’re motivated to put yourself first—something you haven’t done in a long time

You’ve been broken up with your ex for a while, and can’t figure out how to move on.

You’re finally back on the dating apps, but let’s face it—you haven’t found someone who compares to your ex. Some days you feel hopeless knowing you’re still picturing you and your ex getting back together one day when you’ve had enough time apart.

Your friends want you to move on, and you do, too. You’re just not sure exactly…how. You’re reading all recommended self-help books, are now practising yoga, but your ex keeps popping up regardless of what Mel Robbins and Gabrielle Bernstein have to say. Or maybe you have no clue who those two people are, but you’re ready to learn their ways. You’re willing to hear how a breakup coach could get you closer to finding love after your serious relationship ends.

*Please note, breakup coaching is not a substitute for therapy. This is simply coaching you can get in addition to your self-care practice.


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Your breakup coach

No matter where you are in your breakup journey, breakup coaching is always an enlightening, educational, and enriching experience.


Hi! I’m Nancy Ruth Deen, a breakup coach and former matchmaker.

Having worked as a professional matchmaker for years, I had a chance to interview hundreds of men and women on their love lives. Our conversations would go from what they were looking for in a partner; to the trials and tribulations of their last relationship(s); to what they’ve used to work through their breakups—and everything in between.

What I learned after all these interviews: after a breakup, most people were only turning to their friends, family, and Google for support. They didn’t even know they needed support beyond their friends.

What I learned going through my own breakup: I appreciated having a great support system, but I needed more than what my friends and family could offer.

What I learned when I (finally) decided to turn to a coach: why the hell didn’t I do this sooner, and I can’t believe how often loved ones give me advice instead of giving me space to talk without commenting.

Can you relate?

So what is my solution?

Breakup Coaching.

As part of your self-care regimen, you can turn to a coach who has been through a lot, and has advised many others on matters of the heart for over 4 years. Breakup coaching is especially helpful when:

  • Your friends don’t always understand what you’re going through, and you’re looking to get guidance from someone who’s worked with hundreds of other people in the same position

  • You’re in need of someone who will listen, empathize, relate, and help turn complex thoughts into clarity

  • You’re looking for resource recommendations (books, articles, podcasts) as you find it overwhelming to sort through all the noise on the internet about what you “should” do in your particular circumstance

  • You want to speak to someone who has been trained in coaching, communication and psychology, and who has insights into the Vancouver dating scene and relationship industry

  • You’re ready to learn about yourself in a deeper way


What clients are saying


“To anybody looking to improve the health of their personal relationships & communication style, I would highly recommend you engage with Nancy. She is energetic, insightful, and is full of wisdom that will change you for the better. I have learned that rather spending time reverse-engineering why a relationship went south, you are much better off to be wiser and spend more time evaluating WHO you want to be in a relationship with. what a concept!“

"I have to honestly admit that I was reluctant to sign up for the session with you because I was not sure this was how I wanted to spend my money.  After all I have so many expenses with the divorce and my new house. I want you to know that in retrospect, my conversation and learning from you have been the best money l have ever spent. I now have a clear perspective on what is going on in my life and have strategies for regaining my health and well being. Thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction." 

“I was pleasantly surprised by Nancy's coaching approach. It was clear from the outset of our session that she has a gift and she uses that gift very well. Nancy could hear and understand my concerns and had the sensitivity and skill to bounce ideas off of me to help me shift my perception. In a short one hour session, I learned some valuable insights about what it was that was holding me back from dating, and interestingly, I could apply that same perspective to other areas of my life. I learned to shift the fear of rejection and literally became my own cheerleader overnight. I thoroughly enjoyed my session because I am very results driven and I found that shifting my perception from 'I am not Enough' to 'I am a Badass' created a huge change in my life within a short week. I feel like I am walking a runway and being noticed by men every time I am in public, since shifting my negative self-talk to self-love and self-compassion. It's almost like they can sense my newfound confidence and are attracted to that. I have a good feeling that this inner shift that has taken hold from a simple shift in perception through the help of Nancy's insight on dating, is only the beginning of some pretty amazing life changes. I can't wait to see how things continue to unfold!"


get in touch with me

I’m excited to hear from you. You can expect a response within the day to book an online, 30-minute appointment.

Thanks for making your personal development a priority, and I look forward to working through your biggest breakup challenges together.

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