Screen Shot 2019-04-30 at 9.43.24 AM.png

It’s time to work through your breakup

Hi! I'm Nancy, and I'm a Vancouver-based breakup coach who helps men and women get the extra support they need after their relationships end. 

Find Out if Breakup Coaching is Right for You

You’ve been thinking about ending your relationship for a while.

You approach things fairly logically; you’re clear that thing aren’t so…clear. On one hand, you know all your current partner’s best qualities. But then..there’s the issue of those qualities that make you question your entire relationship.

You have come to realize that your typical pros-and-cons list just isn’t working, and you’re wanting to turn to a professional who can help you sort through your complex and tangled thoughts…sooner, rather than later.

your relationship just ended, and you are…#struggling.

Whether you were the one who bravely ended things, or the one who just got broken up with, you find yourself viciously searching Google for the pending answer to “how to get over a breakup fast.” You are caught between feelings of “I can’t handle the loneliness,” and, “I don’t think my friends really get what I’m going through.”

You decide that your Life Coach Google isn’t enough to soothe your breakup, and you’re looking for advice, resources, and relatability from a coach who won’t just give you basic advice like, “you need to be alone,” or, “you just need to meet new people.”

You’ve been broken up with your ex for a while, and can’t figure out how to move on.

You’re finally back on the dating apps, but let’s face it—you haven’t found someone who compares to your ex. Some days you feel hopeless knowing you’re still picturing you and your ex getting back together one day when you’ve had enough time apart.

Your friends want you to move on, and you do, too. You’re just not sure exactly…how. You’re reading all recommended self-help books, are now practising yoga, but your ex keeps popping up regardless of what Mel Robbins and Gabrielle Bernstein have to say. You’re willing to hear how a breakup coach could get you closer to finding love after your serious relationship ends.

*Please note, breakup coaching is not a substitute for therapy. This is simply coaching you can get in addition to your self-care practice.

 

Book a complimentary 30-minute session

nancy@thedatecure.com 

(604)-499-7490

Location

Vancouver, British Columbia

Hours

M-F 9–5p
Sat 10p–2p
Su Closed

Your breakup coach

ACS_0080.JPG
 
 

Hi! I’m Nancy Ruth Deen, a breakup coach and former matchmaker.

Having worked as a professional matchmaker for years, I had a chance to interview hundreds of men and women on their love lives. Our conversations would go from what they were looking for in a partner; to the trials and tribulations of their last relationship(s); to what they’ve used to work through their breakups—and everything in between.

What I learned after all these interviews: after a breakup, most people were only turning to their friends, family, and Google for support.

What I learned going through my own breakup: Social support, including our friends and family, is a big factor in our healing after heartbreak, but their advice can often be overwhelming and confusing. (You know exactly what I mean.)

What I learned when I (finally) decided to turn to a coach: why the hell didn’t I do this sooner, and I can’t believe how often loved ones give me advice instead of giving me space to talk without commenting.

Can you relate?

So what is my solution?

Breakup Coaching.

As part of your self-care regimen, you can turn to a coach who has been through it all, and has advised many others on matters of the heart for over 4 years. Breakup coaching is especially helpful when:

  • Your friends don’t always understand what you’re going through, and you’re looking to get guidance from someone who’s worked with hundreds of other people in the same position

  • You’re in need of someone who will listen, empathize, relate, and help turn complex thoughts into total clarity

  • You’re looking for resource recommendations (books, articles, podcasts) as you find it overwhelming to sort through all the noise on the internet about what you “should” do in your particular circumstance

  • You want to speak to someone who excels in coaching, communication and psychology, and who has insights into the Vancouver dating scene and relationship industry

 
 

What clients are saying

 

"I have to honestly admit that I was reluctant to sign up for the session with you because I was not sure this was how I wanted to spend my money.  After all I have so many expenses with the divorce and my new house 

I want you to know that in retrospect, my conversation and learning from you have been the best money l have ever spent. 

I now have a clear perspective on what is going on in my life and have strategies for regaining my health and well being. 

Thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction." 

“I was pleasantly surprised by Nancy's coaching approach. It was clear from the outset of our session that she has a gift and she uses that gift very well. Nancy could hear and understand my concerns and had the sensitivity and skill to bounce ideas off of me to help me shift my perception. In a short one hour session, I learned some valuable insights about what it was that was holding me back from dating, and interestingly, I could apply that same perspective to other areas of my life. I learned to shift the fear of rejection and literally became my own cheerleader overnight. I thoroughly enjoyed my session because I am very results driven and I found that shifting my perception from 'I am not Enough' to 'I am a Badass' created a huge change in my life within a short week. I feel like I am walking a runway and being noticed by men every time I am in public, since shifting my negative self-talk to self-love and self-compassion. It's almost like they can sense my newfound confidence and are attracted to that. I have a good feeling that this inner shift that has taken hold from a simple shift in perception through the help of Nancy's insight on dating, is only the beginning of some pretty amazing life changes. I can't wait to see how things continue to unfold!"

 

get in touch with me

I’m excited to hear from you. You can expect a response within the day to book an appointment. Thanks for making your personal development a priority, and I look forward to working through your biggest breakup challenges together.

Name *
Name