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Let’s get through your breakup together

Hi! I'm Nancy, and I'm a Vancouver-based breakup coach who helps men and women get through their breakups—even when they’ve tried EVERYTHING 

feel like you’ve tried everything in the books to get over your ex, but nothing has worked?

You’re in the right place. Let’s see if Breakup Coaching is right for you.

Scenario #1: your relationship just ended, and you are…#struggling.

Whether you were the one who bravely ended things, or the one who just got broken up with, you find yourself viciously searching Google for the pending answer to “how to get over a breakup fast.” You are caught between feelings of “I can’t handle the loneliness,” and, “I don’t think my friends really get what I’m going through.”

You decide that your Life Coach Google isn’t enough to soothe your breakup, and you’re looking for advice, resources, and relatability from a coach who won’t just give you basic advice like, “you need to be alone,” or, “you just need to meet new people.”

Or maybe…

  • You’re motivated to learn about your part in the downfall of the relationship

  • You’ve tried everything from getting back into the gym, eating healthier, making new friends, going to therapy—but nothing seems to be working

  • You’re in need of someone to talk to on a weekly basis (for 6-12 weeks)

  • You’re motivated to put yourself first—something you haven’t done in a long time, and you’re not even sure where to begin

Scenario #2: You’ve been broken up with your ex for a while, and can’t figure out how to move on.

You’re finally back on the dating apps, but let’s face it—you haven’t found someone who compares to your ex. Some days you feel hopeless knowing you’re still picturing you and your ex getting back together one day when you’ve had enough time apart.

Or maybe you’re not even sure you know how to date anymore, or what your “ideal” partner even looks like. It’s confusing, to say the least.

Your friends want you to move on, and you do, too. You’re just not sure exactly…how. You’re reading all recommended self-help books, are now practising yoga, but your ex keeps popping up regardless of what Mel Robbins and Gabrielle Bernstein have to say. Or maybe you have no clue who those two people are, but you’re ready to learn their ways. You’re willing to hear how a breakup coach could get you closer to finding love after your serious relationship ends.

Scenario #3: You’ve been thinking about ending your relationship for a while…but can’t figure out how to sort through all your confusing thoughts

You approach things fairly logically; you’re clear that thing aren’t so…clear. On one hand, you know all your current partner’s best qualities. But then..there’s the issue of those qualities that make you question your entire relationship.

You have come to realize that your typical pros-and-cons list just isn’t working, and you’re wanting to turn to a professional who can help you sort through your complex and tangled thoughts…sooner, rather than later. Plus, you’ve realized that rationalizing your way through this type of decision hasn’t gotten you very far.

Or maybe…

  • you’re embarrassed because you “should have” seen the signs earlier, but don’t know how to get out of it after all this time

  • you’re deeply torn between what you “should” do, and what you actually want to do…although that’s starting to feel more confusing than you think it should

  • you’re terrified of repeating old dating patterns, and afraid of ending up alone

Curious which unique circumstances I’ve advised on?

  • How to decide whether or not getting back together with your ex is the “right” decision for my client

  • How to decide whether or not ending a relationship after years of living together is the right decision for you (and what else might be going on to help make/detract from that decision)

  • How to stay broken up from a toxic relationship (full of manipulation)

  • How to uncover the emotional “blocks” that keep dysfunctional dating/relationship patterns going

  • How to successfully deal with the heavy emotions during a breakup (and it’s not about what we “do”)

  • How to understand our partner’s (confusing) actions in a relationship/breakup to help us heal

  • How to shift the focus from all-consuming thoughts of our ex, to inspiring thoughts of ourselves

  • Find out what’s hidden underneath our fears before and after a breakup (and why they are the reason we stay stuck)

  • How to stop rationalizing the breakup and use our intuition

Do any of these sound like your situation? If not, let’s explore your unique breakup challenges together in an individual session.

 

Your breakup coach

No matter where you are in your breakup journey, breakup coaching is always an enlightening, educational, and enriching experience.

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I’m a certified coach (psycho-spirituality), former professional matchmaker, and dog mom.

In case you were wondering, my journey to becoming a breakup coach wasn’t from a tough breakup. Although I definitely experienced one of those (okay, maybe I experienced a few). Let me take you through a bit of my story!

 

Work With Me

— I’m thrilled to offer 3 ways to help you in your breakup journey. All classes and sessions conducted online —


Watch this 3-minute video on each of my 3 services.


Breakup MASTERCLASS

A short, but intensive experience to get you seeing things differently. $699

  • Duration: 3 weeks (3 weekly sessions)

  • 3 private 60-minute online sessions with me

  • Email/text support for 30 days during and after our process

  • Pre-set teachings/lessons (can choose from the lessons in Breakup Breakthrough VIP Experience)

  • Focus: dealing with the anxiety that comes up during your breakup

  • Includes a preliminary 30-minute consult prior to enrolment


Private Individual Sessions

For those of you wanting to get some guidance around a specific issue that doesn’t require a commitment. $200

  • For the client who has one or two pending questions and wants to discuss with a breakup coach/former matchmaker

  • Helpful if you’ve been struggling to find out how to navigate your breakup, or your thoughts about whether or not to break up

  • No consult needed — just book me directly to your calendar right now!

  • Looking for guidance/support with your biggest challenges

  • First session is 90-minutes $200

  • Follow-up sessions $170/60 minutes


Breakup BREAKTHROUGH VIP Experience

It’s time to level-up on your self journey post-breakup — in a way that will change your entire life. $1500-$2500

Full details of the program HERE.

  • I work intensively with you to coach you through some of the most profound concepts that lead to freedom from the fears you’re experiencing during your breakup

  • Ideal for clients who are familiar with “inner” work, and are wanting to deepen their relationship with themselves

  • Between 6-12 sessions (discussed in consultation)

  • Personal development homework/exercises included to deepen your understanding

  • “Unofficial” lifetime support via email — because I love what I do

  • This package is by application only — limited spots per month. Contact me here

 

CLIENT LOVE

[Out of privacy and respect for my clients, all testimonials are anonymous. I Guess you’ll just have to experience it yourself next] ✨

 

“Working with Nancy has been amazing to say the least. Honestly, this coaching was not what I expected at all and I am incredibly grateful to Nancy for making it that way. Her coaching style is great and she was really fun to work with! We were actually able to dig much deeper to the (unexpected) root of a lot of these issues which I feel has really given me a much more grounded and positive outlook on my failed relationship as well as my future relationships and life in general. I've already recommended her to another friend struggling with a breakup and I will continue to recommend her to anyone else in need. Thanks Nancy!” — Student of Breakup Breakthrough VIP Experience

“Before starting with Nancy, I was skeptical. I had many moments where I would think to myself ‘I will never recover from the trauma and heartbreak of my relationship ending. No therapy or coaching will ever help.’ I was heartbroken for about two sessions and all of a sudden, things took a turn. Beyond my wildest dreams, during my third session a light was exposed in me. I was smiling for the first time in years, I was speaking from my soul and I felt a realness where my mind was connecting with my heart. Today as more sessions have passed, I am able to talk with hope, positivity and I am excited for a new chapter that is only upwards and onwards for me. The recovery is hard work, I’m still going through moments of doubt except this time my doubts are not about my ex and I ending. I’ve learnt that I’m still learning. Nancy is helping to guide me to be the better version of myself where I am finding my light again. I’m forever grateful!” — Student of Breakup Breakthrough VIP Experience

“To anybody looking to improve the health of their personal relationships & communication style, I would highly recommend you engage with Nancy. She is energetic, insightful, and is full of wisdom that will change you for the better. I have learned that rather spending time reverse-engineering why a relationship went south, you are much better off to be wiser and spend more time evaluating WHO you want to be in a relationship with. what a concept!“ — Student of Breakup Masterclass

“Nancy has a real gift. In our sessions, she listened deeply - to what was being said, and what wasn't being said.  She asked great questions, and intuitively knew where to gently 'dig' to help reveal what I wasn't seeing or processing.  She helped me gain clarity, and gave me so much to think about.  Nancy is truly a skilled coach who can make a difficult time easier - highly recommended!” — Student of Individual Sessions

"I have to honestly admit that I was reluctant to sign up for the session with you because I was not sure this was how I wanted to spend my money.  After all I have so many expenses with the divorce and my new house. I want you to know that in retrospect, my conversation and learning from you have been the best money l have ever spent. I now have a clear perspective on what is going on in my life and have strategies for regaining my health and well being. Thank you so much for pointing me in the right direction." — Student of Individual Sessions

“I was pleasantly surprised by Nancy's coaching approach. It was clear from the outset of our session that she has a gift and she uses that gift very well. Nancy could hear and understand my concerns and had the sensitivity and skill to bounce ideas off of me to help me shift my perception. In a short one hour session, I learned some valuable insights about what it was that was holding me back from dating, and interestingly, I could apply that same perspective to other areas of my life. I can't wait to see how things continue to unfold!" — Student of Individual Sessions